Anger Management – Stop, Look & Listen

The best way to manage anger is to release it from your mind and stop using it as a justification to attack others. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

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Un-Forgiveness. What is it good for? Absolutely nothing.

There is no upside to un-forgiveness. Forgiveness doesn't mean you are condoning their bad behavior. It doesn't mean they shouldn't be held accountable for their actions. It doesn't mean you are setting yourself up for future victimization. Withholding forgiveness doesn't punish the offender. It actually punishes yourself because it is a form of self-attack and self-sabotage. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

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Is There Any Action That Is Unforgivable?

No action is unforgivable. It just requires a willingness. Why be willing? Because when we withhold forgiveness from others, we are withholding it from ourselves. The opportunity we have to forgive others their trespasses is our own personal ticket to heaven. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

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Want to change your ways? Be honest about your whys.

It is difficult to change when we embrace denial and rationalization rather than admit the truth about ourselves. The truth is we often have an agenda we are not aware of which is driving our behaviors. Or we are aware of our agenda but we don't want to deal with it. Either way, our efforts to change will fail until we are willing to hold up a mirror and honestly look at ourselves. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

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Without loving acts, loving words are meaningless.

Talk is cheap. Talk is easy. Walking the talk? Not so much so. And yet massively more important, critically important to satisfying and sustainable relationships. If you care for someone, it's nice to tell them but more important that you show them in your actions, empathy, and your acts of compassion and consideration. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

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Admit when you’re wrong. Say you’re sorry.

Regardless of how people treat us, when we do something that is wrong, that is hurtful, that is unloving.... we need to own it. We need to acknowledge it. We need to take responsibility. And we need to apologize, to say we're sorry. And we need to make a sincere effort not to repeat the mistake in the future. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

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Listen before you think. Think before you speak.

Oftentimes we are thinking of a response to someone before they have even finished talking. This isn't really listening because this does not allow for subtext to be "heard." So your communication is flawed. Best to listen before you think and then think before you speak. Rather than impulsively and recklessly retorting, consider what you want to say and choose your words wisely. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

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Don’t Mistake Motion For Action; Do The Footwork, Get Out Of The Results

Don't pretend to be busy. Be busy. Be prepared. Do your homework. Pay attention. Consider possible obstacles and unanticipated setbacks that might occur. But don't focus and dwell on terrible outcomes that might happen and how terrible you would feel if they did happen because these are fear thoughts that will derail your efforts and immobilize you. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

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Don’t Mistake Motion For Action; Do The Footwork, Get Out Of The Results

Don't pretend to be busy. Be busy. Be prepared. Do your homework. Pay attention. Consider possible obstacles and unanticipated setbacks that might occur. But don't focus and dwell on terrible outcomes that might happen and how terrible you would feel if they did happen because these are fear thoughts that will derail your efforts and immobilize you. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

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Grin More, You’ll Win More

Grin your way to success. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

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